From Fukui, with Love

School lunch in Japan is a good deal!

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In Japan, students eat school lunch. Every day they get a hot well balanced meal to eat while they’re at school. Rice is a staple in Japan. So much so that each meal time has rice in its name. あさごはん (“morning rice” or breakfast), ひるごはん (“noon rice” or lunch), and ばんごはん (“night rice” or dinner).  As expected rice is also an important part of school lunch. School lunch at hoikuen Every day at hoikuen our children eat school lunch. We are very thankful that the hoikuen provides a healthy meal…read more

Not a typical birth experience in Japan

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I think my birth experience in Japan was far from the “normal” Japanese experience. Prior to The Turtle’s birth I read a lot of blogs about giving birth in Japan. Their experiences were quite a bit different from my own. I wanted to include a few here, so you can get a better idea of what birth in Japan might look like. A Canadian mom from “Life in the Land of Wa” Where: Fukuyama-shi, Japan Story: This mom had to labour in bed without the option of getting up and…read more

My Japanese birth story

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We live in Fukui city.  Fukui city is in Japan.  My baby’s birth certificate says “福井市” in several places. There are ~270 000 other people here.  It’s not a thriving metropolis, it’s not a fishing village, it’s home. Preparing for the big day I don’t speak Japanese.  My husband knows more than me, but not enough.  A while ago we found an English speaking obstetrician through Japan Healthcare Info.  His clinic was small and he had no birthing facilities, but he didn’t require appointments.  I was able to see him…read more

Birth plan for the win

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I mentioned in my last post that part of the reason why our birth experience in Japan was so great was because we had a birth plan, and more importantly a doctor who was willing to follow it.  I thought I would post it here as a resource for any foreign moms planning to give birth in Japan.   Mary Salvatore’s birth plan バースプラン サルバトレ・メアリー Mother’s name: _____________  母親:_____________ Father’s name: _____________ 父親:_____________ Mother’s Date of Birth: _____________ 母の生年月日:_____年___月___日 Estimated Due Date: _____________ 出産予定日:_____年___月___日 OB/GYN: _____________ 主治医:_____________ Midwife: _____________ 担当助産師:_____________ Allergies: None アレルギー:無   We are excited to…read more

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It’s a….TURTLE!

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It’s been a while since I posted about my pregnancy, and I sure many of you already know why.  Life has gotten a lot busier.  Our handsome little boy was born on August 12th at 2:57 a.m.  We had a really great birth experience at Saiseikai hospital in Fukui, Japan.  I’ll post my birth story soon for those of you who might be interested in the finer details.  In short, I gave birth naturally to a healthy 3810g baby boy.  He was quite large compared to Japanese standards, but still…read more

Full term but far from ready

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I’m 37 weeks pregnant. Our baby is now considered full term and could come at anytime. Although we’re hoping we still have another 2 1/2 – 3 weeks to go. There are a lot of things to do still to prepare for our new little baby. Mike wraps his last classes before baby on August 1st, so hopefully baby will hold off until after then. On Monday, I will have my 11th prenatal appointment, and from here on out I will see the doctor once a week (and eventually twice…read more

Choosing a birth centre in Japan

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When we travel, we spend time meticulously pouring over hotel/ryokan reviews so that we can make informed decisions about where we spend our vacation time.  To our surprise, finding a place to give birth has been kind of similar, except instead of comparing amenities like onsens and breakfast, we have been comparing medical interventions and child care philosophies… The standard stay at a birth centre here is around 1 week, which in contrast to the 20 hours we spent at Grand River Hospital in Kitchener when the Bunny was born is…read more

Halfway to newbornville

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Last month we reached the half way point in my pregnancy. Only 16 weeks to go till we meet our new baby! Its been a while since I’ve posted, so let me briefly review the 2nd trimester so far. Currently my prenatal visits have been every 4 weeks. It is exciting to watch our little one grow and see him (yes, it’s a boy!) moving about on the ultrasound monitor. This is a very different experience from Canada where we might have only seen the baby 2 or 3 times…read more

It’s a…

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It’s no longer possible for Mary to hide that she’s pregnant.  The warmer weather mixed with the growing “baby bump” (what a strange name…) makes for lots of questions.  Here are some answers to the most popular ones that we get while we’re out and about: Q: Are you…?  Baby? [tries to make strange hand motions because “pregnant” isn’t in most Japanese people’s English vocabulary] A: Yes.  She is baby. Q: Are you going to have the baby in Japan?  Where will you give birth? A: Yes, and…good question (we…read more

Yes, we are having a baby. Yes, we are having a baby in Japan.

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Our family of 3 is about to become a family of 4. We are very excited to announce that we have a little one on the way! Our second child will be born in the blazing heat of Fukui’s summer. I have decided to renew my contract and stay in Japan a third year, so this child will be born in Japan. There is no doubt that having a baby in a foreign country will be full of all kinds of new and exciting adventures. You can look forward to…read more

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